Defend If in the dream you see yourself defending your children or relatives it can be interpreted as fears of emotional or economic losses involving family breakdown. If you defend your partner you may be showing your fear of infidelity on his part.
Wash, Wash oneself Dreaming of exaggerated cleanness is evidence of a desire to free ourselves from something that can be unpleasant or objectionable. If we wash our hands or body that reveals the desire to get rid of any actual or alleged guilt. If we wash the bedding that reveals concern to keep facts about our sex life hidden.