It may be fear or chaos that makes you dream about strict order.
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Order Dream of you giving orders to someone else means someone will make you certain advantageous offer. If someone else is giving you orders means you will have some doubts and misgivings with the person who orders you.
Order External needs force order upon your businesses. Some people in your circle will take advantage of your naivety, your kindness and your lack of authority.
To order, to command It means that some people in your circle will take advantage of your naive character, your kindness, your lack of authority.