To dream of abuse you are using against someone, represents the pay back time. It means you will have to compensate for what you have done in the past to your family or your friends. You should start to behave the ones you love and show the love you have towards them. If you dream that you have been abused, it means that there is something in your life you should be careful of. Look after yourself, do not trust anyone, as there might be someone who wishes you unhappiness in your life.